Bedtime bonding and building literacy skills through the power of touch....

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I have a bedtime routine, as I'm sure you do with your children.  We have a bath, we put on pajamas, we brush teeth, we choose some books to read together, and snuggle for a little while.  During the snuggle time, I have found that the children often wanted me to rub their back or gently scratch their backs or tummies.  This is a great way to bond with you child as well as to relax them before they fall asleep. 

What I've also found is that this is a fantastic way to build literacy skills.  It began as a soothing game where I would gently "draw" each letter of the alphabet on their back with my finger as I quietly sang the alphabet song to them.  Then, I began drawing one letter at a time (out of order) to see if they could guess which letter I had drawn.  In this way you not only practice letter recognition, but also expose them to the correct form in which to write the letter. 

The child is feeling the letter formed from the paper's perspective. 

Sometimes I will even say quietly to myself "up, down, up, down" as I trace for an "M", or ""over, up, and around" for an "e" so it reinforces the correct way to write the letter at the same time.  The kids just think I'm whispering to myself.  :)

For children that need a little bit more of challenge, you can write a letter and have them tell you the sound the letter makes (phonemic awareness).  Or, you can spell out three or four letter words, or the child's name.  I have also drawn shapes ("guess the shape" game) and numbers.  For younger children, write the numbers on their back with your fingertip as you count in order up to 20, or 100.  For older children, silently trace your finger to form the numbers on their back and have them guess the number you wrote. 

Depending on the night and the child, our games may last only a few minutes. Other times they take longer as we move from one game to another.  Sometimes, it is just plain tickles, back scratches, or cuddles. 

That's the best part about this- it is mostly about the love.

♥

Sand Trays and other fun ways to Prewrite!

I featured this item in an Etsy treasury a while ago, and it is just so wonderful, I had to write about it here as well.  This Sand Tray (pictured here),  by Little Alouette, is a great way to engage your little ones in motor, prewriting and letter skills.  Providing a fun tactile, sensory experience at the same time is just a bonus!  I love how you can use this as an extension for the sandpaper letters, almost like bringing them to 3-D.  Best described by Little Alouette, "The impermanence of the writing of the child in salt/sand gives freedom and a non-stressful sense of learning. One simple shake of the tray makes the surface smooth and ready for more practice. Children can redo without worry.  The Little Alouette Sensory Tray is 8.5 x 8.5 x 2.5 and made from Birch Ply. Deep sides keep sand/salt inside."  And the best part is that it is very reasonable at $16.00 plus shipping.  The rest of their shop is fabulous, so stay around and fill up your wish lists- plenty of handmade, organic, eco friendly wooden toys to choose from (like this Gigi Teething Giraffe-how precious!). 

Want to make a sand tray yourself?  Solid vintage fruit crates, shoe boxes, a single wooden drawer or a plastic tub can substitute.  Simply fill it with sand, and enjoy!

Some other great activities that can be added for a little diversity give a lot for your money as well.  Need an activity to grab using something from around the house, like, now?  Go grab a can of shaving cream, spray it onto your table and let them finger trace, draw, and erase to draw again until their little hearts are content.  Be careful, it can be a little messy, but it cleans your table at the same time (bonus!), smells fresh and clean, and washes out of clothing.  Just a little monitoring required to make sure they don't pretend it is whipped cream and decide to ingest it.  The squeals of delight will last for at least 45 minutes.  A simple wipe-down with a wet cloth afterward is all you need for cleanup.

Another variation is to put liquid paint (like poster paint) into ziploc baggies (I prefer the ones with the zipper so you know when they are closed), be sure they don't have too much air in them, and let the children draw with their finger on top of the closed bag.  Just squish the bag to erase and start again.  With supervision, this can also be a great color-mixing exercise.  What happens when you mix blue paint and yellow paint in the baggie?  The letters turn green!  Don't have paint?  Shaving cream or whipped cream and a little food coloring works great as well.

Options for Tactile Sandpaper Letters and Number Sets

So, you want the sandpaper letters, but can't bring yourself to purchase them retail from one of the fine Montessori Suppliers. You do have some less expensive options!

First, if you are feeling crafty, make them yourself! I made my first set myself using flat wooden tablets bought in bulk at a craft store (only a few dollars), and some textured paint sampler cards in blue and red from my nearest hardware store. I traced the letters on the back of the paint sampler cards with graphite paper, and used an exacto knife to cut them out. (This part would be even easier if you had access to an Ellison machine or something similar to punch out the letters). Then, I simply glued on the letters to the wooden tablets! For the numbers, I purchased black, raised mailbox numbers from the hardware section of Walmart. The best part about these are that they are already textured, have strong self-adhesive on the back of the numbers (made to last through weather conditions), and all I had to do was peel and stick! The children really like these because the numbers are 3-dimensional and easy to finger-trace.

Another option is to purchase handmade sandpaper letters/numbers. Polliwog Learning Products sells sets of their letters and numbers beginning at $9.99. The photo above is from their sandpaper numbers.

A third choice is to visit Lakeshore Learning's nearest store or their website for this set. Although I haven't ordered these myself, I've always been happy with their quality and customer service, which is important to me. Plus, these are only $14.95! The number set is also available.

Montessori Services offers a book version of the tactile letter concept in the Red Letter Alphabet Book. Although they recommend using this book as a complement to the sandpaper letters, it does use the same concept, with velvety, touch-sensitive letters, and has paired them with pictures of everyday objects. Priced at $20, or buy it as a set with the number book for $30.

One other book selection, which I have, is called Making Letters, a very first writing book. Currently available at Amazon for $7.99, it is a great introduction to tactile letter tracing. The book is a board book with the letters indented into the page, creating a cut-out surface for finger tracing. There are large dots to show the child where they begin tracing, and they follow the dotted path around the letters. Next to each letter is an object that begins with that letter and the name of the object. This book is all lower case, which I find refreshing, as so many of the alphabet books on the market show only upper case letters. You can buy it as a set with the coordinating Making Numbers and Making Shapes tactile books for $23.97. I also like the book concept because unlike the sandpaper tablets, they travel well in the car, a waiting room, or at the table in the restaurant.

If you already have the sandpaper letters, and want an extension, take a look at the Magnetic Trace a Letters by Anatex. Yes, they are expensive ($87.32), but they look like such fun! Plus, the child will gain practice in holding the magnetic wand like a pencil while they trace, making the transition to pencil and paper gentler. These are on my wish list!